I know, I owe you an explanation of my whereabouts.
Too many things have happened, I will fill you in with time, but for now,I met someone.
‘What is it that attracts good girls to bad boys?’that’s a question I have always asked myself. I am not sure I will ever get the answer, but at list I am beginning to get a clue.
I really do not consider myself a good girl, but I sure am not a bad one.
A girl like me takes a glass of water in the morning, has a shower, get breakfast (mostly tea and bread) and go to her boring work place to serve the nation and pay some taxes.
A girl like me remembers to pray at list once a day, she reads her bible every time she remembers and spends her weekends watching movies or getting to know a boy she fancies.
On the flip side, i would consider a bad boy to be a risk taker, someone who dares to do things he is likely to be judged for. Someone smart, funny and good looking but who does not mind being himself and enjoying life. He may not know how to read a bible, he may own one, just in case his mother visited, but it may be full of dust. He may have learned how to pray when young, but it could be years since he last believed in a supernatural miracle.
A bad boy leaves to please himself, he cares less what the society thinks of him.
He may not spend his weekends watching movies or getting to know a girl he fancies, he may not even realize when he fancies anyone because everyone fancies him and all he has to do is choose whose life he wants to waste, because he never is serious.
His morning may include a sip of cold mangoe juice and a peackock kind of walk to his work place where he enjoys work.
All girls love to talk to him, they don’t mind being seranede by his words whether truths or lies.
Something about a bad boy does attract a good girl, am sure by now you know why.
A good girl is used to the norm, she is not likely to be attracted to a good boy because there will be no surprises. It is the usual norm, a good dinner, or a movie, a walk in the park or a camp in the woods.
A bad boy on the other hand is usually full of surprised, hence cares less about traditions, he would probably break out dancing to some nice music in the movies or start singing in the middle of the streets, he would not be embarrassed to hold his woman’s waste on the street or steal a kiss when he feels like.
He would probably give an honest feedback on your outfit or your character and make a better person out of you.
He is likely to offend a good girl but still appear to be very attractive.
The catch however is no one really knows how serious the bad boy gets.
How many girls is he so honest with, or how many does he get smitten with, how many times will he listen to the good girl and just how many times will he seat to watch a movie or think about his dusty bible?
Maybe its natures way, that the good and the bad must strike a balance